If you follow me on Facebook ( and you can do this only if we are friends ) then you know I'm opinionated, and have the confidence in expressing my thoughts. But following me also gives you a cryptic look into my world without a real clue as to who or what I am spouting off about. My goal with my blog is to avoid the cryptic status and address topics while opening up discussions and minds. ( Including mine )
I am a Liberal Conservative ( yea.... I know)
I am Christian
I am a Mom
I am wife
My favorite color is purple....it used to be green
I want to talk about it all....
I want to have fun with it
I want to laugh at myself
I don't take too much too seriously ( I'm working on that)
I may have opinions that differ from yours, but I promise I will respect yours and I hope for the same.
I am truly looking forward to this journey with anyone who is ready to ride.
I want to share an occurrence that I have been attempting to share on facebook for days and for some un-explainable reason, I keep deleting and backspacing. This is one of my God stories. They aren't usually witty or goofy.... just straight from the heart :-)
A few days ago my husband received incessant text messages from a someone who was doing everything possible to upset him. This individual attempted to discredit nearly every member of our family member leaving NO-ONE exempt, with a only one goal in mind; to make themselves look and feel better in the minds of the very few who actually believe the outrageous statements made.
I was getting extremely angry and wanted to verbally eviscerate this person. And when I was through, I wanted to go after the few who are perpetuating the lies. I had typed and retyped paragraphs to ALL involved literally spewing hate and anger in every direction possible. " you there living in your glass house throwing bricks of lies.....blah blah blah...you'll get your in the end....blah blah blah..." And the final time I was ready to hit "share" Someone stopped me.... I calmed down.... and I started to talk to God.
Dear God,
Please
Short and to the point. Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay better than my original plan. Though I didn't think so at the time. I really wanted to tell them off....
But I feel much better doing it God's way.
Thanks for following and blog on!
Vicki
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. - Deuteronomy 31:6
I love your prayer to Him. Reminds me of when my boys were younger and would have a meltdown....I would want to yell and all but found that just holding them tight but not too tight and quietly say, 'I loveyou' that eventually the melt down was a memory. God can do that for us too when we have our meltdowns. Beautifully said.
ReplyDeleteThat was the best way to go about that. To send angry texts only perpetuates the problem and makes them feel even more superior. I am a total fan of "nicing" the people who try to make me angry. It truly seems to upset them and I have no reason to feel bad about it later. It also usually ends up giving me a real good chuckle to match the person squirm.
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